Meditation is an ideal way to pray. Using God's word (Lectio Divina) allows me to hear, listen and reflect on what the Lord wants to say to me - to one of his disciples - just like He did two thousand years ago.
The best time to reflect is at the beginning of the day and for at least 15 to 30 minutes.
Prior to going to sleep, read the Mass readings for the next day and then, in the morning, reflect on the Meditation offered on this website.
I hope these daily meditations allow you to know, love and imitate the Lord in a more meaningful way.
God bless you!

Monday, December 13, 2010

Mt 21:23-27 Pleasing Everyone

Mt 21:23-27 Pleasing Everyone

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Lord, increase my faith for I long to see your face!

There is a famous little story about those who try to please everyone.

A man and his son were going with their donkey to market. As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them and said: “You fools, what is a donkey for but to ride it?” So the man put the boy on the donkey and they went on their way. But as soon as they passed a group of men, they overheard one say, “See that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides.” So the man took his son off the donkey and got on himself. But they hadn’t gone far when they passed two women, one of whom said to the other: “Shame on that lazy lout to let his poor little son trudge along.” So the man came up with a brilliant idea. He and his son would ride the donkey. They continued towards the market with a smile on their face. But as soon as they passed another group of people they heard them say, “Poor creature. Why don’t they give that donkey a break?”

Moral of the story: try to please all, and you will please none.

“Teach me your ways, O Lord” (Ps 25:4). I don’t know about you, but I have found myself at times trying to please people – too many people - and at the expense of my own peace of mind and at the expense of their formation. There are many who approach me seeking to cut through this or that line, seeking shortcuts to this or that ministry, or searching to cut through the bureaucracy of Church structures and systems. And in the end, what happens? A mess. Try to please all, and you will please none. Actually, it is even worse than that: try to please all, and they will be nasty. I know…mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa. I have learned a valuable lesson.

The Chief priests and the elders wanted a shortcut. They were seeking a favor. They wanted to know Jesus without going through the nuisance or bother of following him, listening to him and speaking to him. Just like so many today, they don’t want to bother with marriage preparation or baptismal classes; they would love to skip the retreats for Confirmation or RCIA. They just want to get it done with and do the minimum that is required. But in the end, they will not be able to recognize the Lord in any of it. The hidden desire to know, love and follow Christ will be completely lost.

In other words, the child will not be seen again after baptism; the teenager will disappear or may lose his/her faith after Confirmation; and a couple will most likely, at best, struggle after their wedding.

Look and see what happened to the Pharisees, scribes, chief priests and elders. Very few took the time to listen and learn. Very few converted.

One delightful person recently mentioned to me that the Confession line was part of the process of conversion. That is, to sacrifice your time for the Lord is part of the process of repentance. I never thought of it like that and this person is absolutely correct. How often do we consider filling out the proper paperwork, going to the classes and/or speaking to a priest as part of the Sacrament? If we think about it, it is. It is all about following him, listening to him and speaking to him.

This third Sunday of Advent is about moving towards the star. No shortcuts are allowed. Every valley, every mountain, every trial and difficulty, every joy and consolation is a gift from the Lord. Seek the Lord throughout the journey and your arrival will be more enriching and rewarding.

Even the Lord took the time to be born; to be educated by the Pharisees and scribes, and ride a donkey for it was part of the process and his journey.


  1. Not to anyone else but, seems like I'm always pleasing my husband and my daughters, and I get lost in the 'shuffle'. Tremendous love means tremendous sacrifice? or mama the doormat?

  2. I make better confessions when I stand in line. I only forget about half of what I wanted to say. If I catch the priest in the sacristy after Mass, as I did today, I may forget to mention most of my sins. . . . .(Can we say I had a senior moment?)

    Last week, I walked through the church and saw some of the school children waiting to go to confession, writing out huge lists. Maybe I should make an outline before confession, but I surely would hate to see my sins in black and white. . . .

  3. Interesting, my list gets longer as I stand in line. And I do write them down. Seeing them in black and white makes me not want to repeat them. Actually having to confess them makes me not want to commit them in the first place.

    Since I’ve been ‘back’ to the sacrament of confession, after being away for nearly 20 years, I actually think, do I want to have to confess this out loud in confession? If not, most often it keeps me from doing whatever it is in the first place.


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