Jesus said to his disciples: I am the true vine, and my Father is the vine
grower. He takes away every branch in me
that does not bear fruit, and everyone that does he prunes so that it bears
more fruit. You are already pruned
because of the word that I spoke to you.
Remain in me, as I remain in you.
Remain in me, as I remain in you. Today, I was invited by a 4th
grade teacher to their “show and tell.” I brought with me a chalice and talked about
it. I could tell they were excited to
see a chalice close up and personal. But
I wanted to explain to them what makes something sacred. I asked them if they knew the difference
between a sacred and profane object. They
didn’t. So I held up the chalice and
told them that this chalice is sacred because it will only used for a sacred
purpose: to contain the blood of Jesus
Christ. It will never be used for
anything else; for example, to hold coffee or milk or skittles.
They got it. But then I wanted
to make sure they really understood the difference, so I asked them if a pair
of black shoes could be sacred. They
looked puzzled. I told them, “It depends…it depends on what these pair of
shoes are used for. Are they used only
for the Mass or for everyday?” Now,
they understood.
“What about us? Are we sacred?”
“We are all sacred.” I said, “All of us are sacred, even those who do not
know it.” But we can easily end up
letting others profane us.” So many
people in this world would love to just use us, sell us and even exploit us. No one owns your life, not even you! Only the Lord owns life, and He will
never degrade (profane) it. Life is not "common" or "secular". It is sacred and unique. The Lord elevates (sanctifies) life.
All we have to do is allow Him to prune us once in a while.
Now with kids, you always
have to be ready for the conversation to go from one subject to another. When I asked if anyone had any questions, one
child raised his hand and asked: “If
someone commits suicide, do they go to hell?”
I’m still shocked to hear 4th graders talking about these
things, but I’m no longer surprised by it.
“Only God knows who goes to hell, we don't.”
I said, “We don’t even know if Judas went
to hell! God knows us better than anyone
and even better than ourselves. He knows
our hearts and minds. But we can definitely
say that betrayal and suicide are grave acts.”
Another child chimed in: “My father has a friend who committed
suicide because he had a sickness in his brain.” “You see!” I said, “There
are many reasons why people do what they do.
God truly knows why. But we can still
say that suicide is always a grave act that should be avoided at all cost, just
like murder is always a grave act that should be avoided at all cost. Now there may be a lot of reasons why people
kill others (because they are sick in the head, because they hate others, etc.),
but we can all say that murder is always a grave act.
The kids understood and I was pleased.
It pains me when these questions are asked by adults, especially
Catholic adults!
But then one child asked me a brilliant question: “If God
already knows what we are going to do?
Why would he let people go to Hell?”
Wow! What a great
question! Now it’s not a great question
because it was never asked before (in fact, it was asked - and answered – long ago),
but because he was the first in his class to ask it. I was impressed!
“Knowing someone doesn’t mean
controlling someone. I know that all of
you will leave this class when the bell rings.
It doesn’t mean I did it for you.
I know all of you will go home; it doesn’t mean I pushed you. God knows us, He knows everything about us,
but He doesn’t control us. Instead, He
made us to love and be loved, and love cannot be controlled, it can only be
pruned.
You are already pruned because of the word that I spoke to you. To be pruned by the Lord means to
accept the word that was spoken to us.
It means to follow the Lord in all things. It means we have been taken from the wild and
domesticated. It means we are no longer
allowed to act like everyone else. We
cannot seek revenge; we cannot resort to lies to gain the upper hand; we cannot
fight fire with fire. We can’t even hate
or disrespect or make fun of our “enemies”!
We have been pruned. We are not
some “wild thing.”
I can honestly say that if we do not choose the Lord, then we will
choose someone or something else, and we will eventually be owned by it and slaves
to it. We will end up withering away like
so many before us who wither away when they choose to live like a “wild thing”. Commandments are not restrictions; they are prescriptions
for good health.
I am the vine, you are the branches. Once pruned, a “wild thing” will produce
great fruit. We will not be controlled
by the Lord; we will simply be an extension of Him.
I love to play in the dirt, I love flowers and I love the sun. Since spring has arrived, I am with all three. My flower beds are filled with perennials which come back year after year. (I can tell I’m getting old!....and I love it!) Pope Francis continues to remind us how we are to take care of the earth (interesting)! I find that God is constantly telling us what is good for us, what is absolutely pleasurable for us, if we would open our eyes to the earth (and everything that surrounds us) in every present moment which He is asking us to nurture. One of my favorite gardening tips is pruning! Pruning does wonders to most of my flowers. They are bare and naked in the fall after I prune them. In winter, their roots are growing deeper, but they really don’t do anything for me. They actually detract from the beauty of my backyard……. until they finally resurrect in the spring. But now they are more mature, more beautiful, and more vibrant than the year before!
ReplyDelete“As the roots grow deeper the plant grows taller.” Chiara Lubich.
In other words, the more we love our neighbor the more our love for God grows and visa versa.
Like my flowers, I don’t like to be pruned. I want to stay proud and vibrant. However, I know it is only in my admitting my failures that I will grow. ‘In my weakness, He is strong.’ I just have to look around at my roses to realize that there is no thorn without a rose.
Thank you Father for these last few meditations. Pretty good stuff.
Lovely meditation. Thank you Father!
DeletePainfully true sometimes, but so healing. Praise God
DeleteGreat meditation Fr. Alfonse. Thank you so much.
ReplyDelete“It depends…it depends on what these pair of shoes are used for. Are they used only for the Mass or for everyday?”
ReplyDeleteOnly the Lord owns life, and He will never degrade (profane) it. Life is not "common" or "secular". It is sacred and unique. The Lord elevates (sanctifies) life.
God knows us better than anyone and even better than ourselves. He knows our hearts and minds.
“There are many reasons why people do what they do. God truly knows why.
God knows us, He knows everything about us, but He doesn’t control us. Instead, He made us to love and be loved, and love cannot be controlled, it can only be pruned.
I can honestly say that if we do not choose the Lord, then we will choose someone or something else, and we will eventually be owned by it and slaves to it. (Carl Jung said that if we do not find ecstasy legitimately, we will find it illegitimately.)
Commandments are not restrictions; they are prescriptions for good health.
Father, I had to re-read this meditation so many times – it is so dense! I could use each one of these thoughts for contemplation each day!
Beautiful.