Meditation is an ideal way to pray. Using God's word (Lectio Divina) allows me to hear, listen and reflect on what the Lord wants to say to me - to one of his disciples - just like He did two thousand years ago.
The best time to reflect is at the beginning of the day and for at least 15 to 30 minutes.
Prior to going to sleep, read the Mass readings for the next day and then, in the morning, reflect on the Meditation offered on this website.
I hope these daily meditations allow you to know, love and imitate the Lord in a more meaningful way.
God bless you!

Sunday, July 27, 2014

Mt 13:24-30 Raising Saints

Memorial of Saints Joachim and Anne, Parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary
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Jesus proposed a parable to the crowds.  “The Kingdom of heaven may be likened to a man who sowed good seed in his field. While everyone was asleep his enemy came and sowed weeds all through the wheat, and then went off. When the crop grew and bore fruit, the weeds appeared as well.”

The preview to the forthcoming 50 Shades of Grey movie premiered on the Today Show Thursday morning at 8AM. This movie, based on a book of the same title, glamorizes sexual domination and sadomasochism while romanticizing abusive relationships and sociopathic behavior. Ironically, the preview debuted during National NFP Awareness Week, a week that the Church sets aside each year to “celebrate and reverence God's vision of human sexuality." The actual movie is set to be released in theaters in February 2015, just in time for another Catholic celebration, St. Valentine’s Day.
The Devil in Grey I would sooner have The Lord take my vision than to willingly subject myself to such a pathetic degradation of love and intimacy. Yet my social media pages have been flooded with links to the movie trailer and excited status updates from friends who are completely mesmerized by “Mr. Grey”. The enemy is obviously trying to sow lust in the hearts of many with this movie. He wants nothing more than to move us away from the light of God and into the grey area where just about anything goes, especially our hearts. Moral relativism lives in the grey area – so do most lukewarm Christians. When you don’t pick a side, the enemy will pick one for you. If you are not firmly rooted in Christ the enemy will destroy you, little by little, from the inside out. This is what is happening to Christians who say they are against porn but see no problem with books and movies like 50 Shades.
Feminism v. the Feminine Genius I have long struggled to define what it means to be a feminist. I am very weary to identity myself as one. Far too many feminists believe that it is degrading for a woman to submit to the authority of her husband, to want a lot of kids (like, more than 2.5), or to be "just" a stay at home mom. Religious sisters and nuns are also often mocked by feminists who do not understand the freedom that is bestowed upon those who take vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience. They are blind to the beauty of a life given totally to Christ.

Rather, these women believe that they have found their independence in being used as an object for sexual gratification and using others as such. They cannot see the truth that Saint John Paul II speaks of in his Letter to Women which identifies our Blessed Mother Mary as the “highest expression of the feminine genius”. She was made Queen of Heaven and earth because of her obedience and desire to do the will of God. For her, “to reign is to serve”. This is what true feminine strength is rooted in – sacrificial love.

Total Gift of Self A vocation to religious, consecrated, or married life is the total, irrevocable gift of self to another. Love invites us to come out of ourselves but unlike lust, does not force or coerce. We have to choose to respond to the Lord’s invitation out of our own free will. If we do not, we will only be cheating ourselves out of authentic love. St. Therese of Lisieux put it this way, “Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender.” Through prayer and discernment we must learn to hear God’s voice and answer out of love.

The Holy Spirit guides us in all these things, yet I think parents also have a much deeper impact on discernment and vocations than they realize. Saint Joachim and St. Anne, whom we honor today, are a beautiful example of how parents can nurture a vocation. They must have been very prayerful and devout people for they are often shown in paintings reading scripture with Mary. They always pointed her towards the Lord just as she always points us toward her Son. Mary’s fiat and her loyalty to God in her vocation as a wife and mother were surely impacted by the faith she learned from her parents.

Saint John Paul II also had wonderful parents who instructed him in the faith. In the book Saint John Paul the Great: His Five Loves, he recalls attending daily Mass, reading scripture, and praying the liturgy of the hours with his father, but also said that he never dreamed of becoming a priest much less a pope. It wasn’t until many years later that John Paul realized he had been greatly affected by simply witnessing the devoutness of his father’s prayer life.

Sometimes I would wake up during the night and find my father on his knees, just as I would always see him kneeling in the parish church. We never spoke about a vocation to the priesthood, but his example was in a way my first seminary.” – St. John Paul II

On another occasion, the day after his mother’s funeral, John Paul’s father took him and his older brother on a pilgrimage to a Marian shrine and reminded them that the Blessed Virgin Mary would always look after them and protect them until they could be reunited with their mother in Heaven. This one act of faith planted a seed of Marian devotion in John Paul’s heart that would eventually change the whole world when he became pope and declared “Totus Tuus” as his motto.

Good seed and bad seed are being planted every day, especially in the hearts of young people whom St. John Paul II greatly loved. The enemy continues to try to sow weeds to entangle their souls and suffocate their faith. But parents have a huge role to play in this battle between good and evil. Homes should be sanctuaries – domestic churches – places where kids can learn the faith not just from a book but by the witness of their parents’ lives. Movies and the media would have you believe that parents don’t have much of an impact on their children’s lives or that the only impact they can have is a negative one, but that is simply a lie from the pit of hell.

If anything, we can all take a lesson from St. Monica, the mother of St. Augustine. She too led a devout and prayerful life in spite of many difficulties, and eventually her troubled son underwent a deep and profound conversion because of her prayers. She may have been discouraged more times than not, but she never ceased to pray. It’s hard to pray with a broken heart, but it is the surest way to become a saint and to raise one!

Saint Joachim and Saint Anne, pray for us!!

This mediation was written by Stephanie Juarez. For more of her writings please visit her blog Lover of the Light. 


  1. Stephanie, well done!! We as women are challenged each and every day of our lives. I have a dear friend who is single yet she was "consecrated" through a ritual ceremony by the bishop to live as a virgin in this world. Wow and that was over 20yrs ago and she's completely at peace with herself! She wanted me to in my mid to late 50's I look back and I do not regret the decision I made and I too am at peace with myself. This Grey Shades...never read nor will I ever read the book but I heard what it entails. Speaking of hearing...Beyonce will have a CD release of the track. Someone sent me a portion of one of her recordings...I was waiting for her to begin to sing but no music just sounds of I replied back telling them that I was waiting for the music to begin...and the reply was "Are you serious? Don't you get it?" appears that this has gone viral...We as women must continue to be "Women of
    Faith" ----"living by example". The song "We walk by faith and not by sight" comes to mind...May our "breaths" be followed by words of faith, hope and love. Thank you for your beautiful meditation! Irene

  2. Stephanie:

    Excellent thoughts. I received some emails about this movie and watched the trailer for myself. This Is nothing short than the glamorization of pornography. Twenty-five years ago, I did a senior thesis on pornography. I used to stand on 42nd Street in NYC and interview prostitutes, some of whom were teenagers. Their number one customers were married men, men who likely had daughters of the same age. The "feminists" in the 80s used to rant against the objectification of women and decry pornography. Now these same women are endorsing this movie. What gives?

    I am a feminist in the truest sense of the word. God has called each woman to a unique vocation either as a mother, wife, single person or religious. We need to embrace our vocations and be obedient (I loved your blog post on NFP--it's perhaps one of the hardest teachings of the Church but so worth it). We need to model good behavior and the virtues of chastity and modesty for our daughters.

    And for those that don't believe porn harms, I want to share a link to a recent porn study that shows what porn users believe. Please encourage all your friends to boycott this movie and to celebrate their authentic God given femininity.

  3. Brenda D BoldingJuly 27, 2014 at 6:18 PM

    Very good post Father Alfonse even though I am past 40 and have never been married I am committed to living a chaste life style and I feel that I have been called to the chaste single life and I refuse to be around people who do not share my values because we are known by the company we keep, by the way it was good seeing you at the Cathedral for the Chrism Mass I am still printing out some of your blog and putting it in the Library at St joseph in Richardson so people who do not have internet can get a chance to read your blog

  4. Brenda D BoldingJuly 27, 2014 at 6:20 PM

    Very good post Father Alfonse even though I am past 40 and have never been married I am committed to living a chaste life style and I feel that I have been called to the chaste single life and I refuse to be around people who do not share my values because we are known by the company we keep, by the way it was good seeing you at the Cathedral for the Chrism Mass I am still printing out some of your blog and putting it in the Library at St joseph in Richardson so people who do not have internet can get a chance to read your blog


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