Meditation is an ideal way to pray. Using God's word (Lectio Divina) allows me to hear, listen and reflect on what the Lord wants to say to me - to one of his disciples - just like He did two thousand years ago.
The best time to reflect is at the beginning of the day and for at least 15 to 30 minutes.
Prior to going to sleep, read the Mass readings for the next day and then, in the morning, reflect on the Meditation offered on this website.
I hope these daily meditations allow you to know, love and imitate the Lord in a more meaningful way.
God bless you!


Monday, May 25, 2026

What Every Gift from God Has in Common: Sharing Your Love with the World

 


The Day the Apostles Started Speaking

Today we celebrate Pentecost, the gift of the Holy Spirit.

In the first reading, the apostles were filled with the Holy Spirit and suddenly able to speak in many tongues. You can imagine what that moment felt like. All at once, you have this gift. You can speak in another language. For anyone who already speaks more than one language, you know that is no small thing. That is a real gift.

It brings to mind a very different kind of story. Growing up as a first-generation American with Italian parents, the message at home was clear: don’t call him Alfonso, call him Alphonse. Don’t speak Italian. Learn English. Families even changed their names so they wouldn’t sound too Italian. How times have changed. And how we need to be grateful for the many blessings God has given us.

But here is the thing about speaking in multiple languages, or any gift for that matter. It is not about saying, “Look at me.” People sometimes say, “Father, I speak in tongues. God gave me this gift to speak in tongues.” And that may well be true. But the gift is never just about you.


Peace Be With You, and Then What?

In the Gospel, Jesus appears to the apostles and says, “Peace be with you.”

Can you imagine if Jesus said that to you personally? No more problems, ever. Peace, just like that. Great, wonderful, okay. But notice what happens immediately after. Jesus says, “As the Father sent me, so I send you.” And then, “Receive the Holy Spirit.” And then, “Whose sins you forgive are forgiven.”

Every gift comes with a responsibility. Every blessing carries a mission. Jesus gives peace and then gives purpose in the same breath.


What Would You Do With $500?

To make this point land, consider a simple question: if someone handed you $500 right now, what would you do with it?

It is actually a revealing question. At one Mass, a child said he would buy a pair of sneakers. With $500? Okay, two pairs of sneakers. A teenager, head down, quietly said he would give it to the homeless. That one stopped everyone for a second. Another young person said he would give half to his mom and spend the rest on food. Someone older said she would save it.

None of those answers are wrong. But think about how they reflect where each person is in life. The younger you are, the more you think about spending it on yourself. The older you get, at least ideally, the more you think about others.

Yesterday, there was a quinceaƱera. Three young ladies were celebrating. When asked what the quinceaƱera meant to them, each one said something like, “It means I am no longer a young girl. I am a woman now.”

That is a beautiful tradition. But here is a honest way to think about what it actually means to become an adult. It is not about age. It is about what you do when something good comes your way. Do you keep it all? Or do you think about how to share it?


Everything Is a Gift, Even the Hard Things

Everything in life is a gift. Everything.

Life itself is a gift. Nobody earned the right to exist. It is a total gift from God. The health we have is a gift from God. And here is the harder part: even the struggles we carry can be gifts.

When someone comes to Mass on crutches or in a wheelchair, that person does more for the rest of us than we could ever do for them. When someone who has been through real hardship still shows up, still worships, still believes, that witness is a gift. It is a reminder to stop complaining about being tired.

Monday, May 18, 2026

Keep Christ at the Center: The Recipe for Surviving Hardship

 


Building a Church Together

These readings carry a wonderful and powerful meaning when you hold them together.

In the first reading, the early Church is already dealing with trouble. The Hellenists, Jews who grew up outside of Israel, and the Hebrews, Jews who grew up in Israel, are divided. That division is causing real friction in the way widows are being treated. Even in the earliest days of the Church, things needed to be worked out.

What matters is that they did work it out. They worked through it together. That is actually where the idea of deacons comes from. (They’re here to solve all our problems) 

The responsorial psalm carries this message: “Lord, let your mercy be on us as we place our trust in you.” We place our trust in God because of his mercy. That exchange is at the heart of everything.

Then in the second reading, St. Peter introduces the image of stones. The first reading shows the Church being built, not physically, but in terms of mission and purpose. The second reading tells us that we are the stones that hold it together.

And in the Gospel, Jesus says it plainly: “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Have faith in God. Have faith in me. I am the way, the truth, and the life.”

Jesus is the boulder. He is the rock. He is the cornerstone.

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”

And then Peter turns to us: “You are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people of his own.” We are the stones that help build this Church together. We cannot ignore it, erase it, or walk away when the Church is going through tough times. We are here to help build it.

Building a physical structure would be easy by comparison. But the real goal is not what you build. The real goal is who you become.


A Confirmation Program and an Honest Reaction

We had confirmations here recently, over 100 kids across five separate ceremonies. It was a beautiful program. But something on the back of the program gave me pause.

It read: “Dear parents, today is a beautiful and graceful day as your children receive the sacrament of confirmation. Thank you for your unwavering love, your sacrifices, your commitment to raising your children in the Catholic faith.”

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”

And then Peter turns to us: “You are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people of his own.” We are the stones that help build this Church together. We cannot ignore it, erase it, or walk away when the Church is going through tough times. We are here to help build it.

Building a physical structure would be easy by comparison. But the real goal is not what you build. The real goal is who you become.


A Confirmation Program and an Honest Reaction

We had confirmations here recently, over 100 kids across five separate ceremonies. It was a beautiful program. But something on the back of the program gave me pause.

It read: “Dear parents, today is a beautiful and graceful day as your children receive the sacrament of confirmation. Thank you for your unwavering love, your sacrifices, your commitment to raising your children in the Catholic faith.”

I thought about that. If I had been confirmed and read those words, my reaction would have been something like, “The only reason I’m here is because I was forced to be here. I can’t wait to get confirmed so I never have to step foot in a Catholic church again.”

I never saw my parents pray. Not once. I never saw my father pray. I never saw my mother pray. The one person I actually did see pray was my grandmother.

When I was being rebellious and angry, she would say, “Alfonso, I pray for you. I pray for you.” And I would say back to her, “What are your prayers going to do for me?” 

Now I’m a priest. 

I was young. I was stupid. But more than anything, I was angry.


A Diary from 1977

When my father passed away, he had saved so many things. Going through his belongings, I found a diary I had started writing in 1977. I was 12 years old, in seventh grade.

The pages are filled with blacked-out curse words. The entries describe how much I hated my father, how much I hated my brother and sister. This all lines up with the years my parents were going through their divorce.

It is so easy to displace Jesus when you are going through tough times and replace him with something else. It can be anger. It can be resentment. It can be anything.

Here is how it often happens in a small town. You go to church every Sunday. Everyone knows your family. They watch the kids grow up. And then the family dynamics change. Suddenly, you do not want to go. You do not want to hear the questions. “How are you doing? Is everything okay? What’s going on?”

So you stop going. And when a child stops going, God can be quietly removed and replaced.

It happens in other ways too. A child starts playing club soccer. The schedule shifts. Saturdays and then Sundays get taken over. Sunday Mass gets displaced. Life gets complicated, life gets challenging, and the rock gets moved.

This is what happens when you begin to replace God with something else.


What My Father Did Not Do

My father found that diary. He took it from my room and kept it. I honestly do not know why. Maybe he planned to use it against me one day.

But here is the thing. He had an opportunity. He could have sat me down and said, “Hey, I read this. What’s going on? Why do you feel this way?” He had that moment right in front of him.

He did not take it. When we are going through tough times, we tend to avoid. We go silent. We pretend nothing is happening. My father was a good man. A genuinely good man. But you cannot give what you do not have.

Today I look at that diary as a grace from God. It is an opportunity to learn from the past and to share something real.


The One Stable Thing

The image of Jesus as the cornerstone matters because of what it actually means. No matter what you are going through, there is one stable thing that will never change. Something eternal.

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. Come to me, all you who are burdened, and I will give you rest. I will never fail you.”

For me, it was my grandmother. This woman had only a fifth-grade education. She came to live with us when my life was a complete mess. And she was the one who gave the greatest testimony of what it means to be strong.

She prayed. That was it. She just prayed, faithfully, out loud, where I could see her. I always remember.


You Can Still Be That Rock

Here is the good news. If you are still breathing, if you are still alive, you can still be that rock for someone.

We have been called by God to be a stabilizing presence in our own lives and in the lives of the people around us. We are the stones. Jesus is the cornerstone. And together, we build something that lasts.

If Christ is not the center, everything else slowly takes his place. Remember that. And be the rock.