Meditation is an ideal way to pray. Using God's word (Lectio Divina) allows me to hear, listen and reflect on what the Lord wants to say to me - to one of his disciples - just like He did two thousand years ago.
The best time to reflect is at the beginning of the day and for at least 15 to 30 minutes.
Prior to going to sleep, read the Mass readings for the next day and then, in the morning, reflect on the Meditation offered on this website.
I hope these daily meditations allow you to know, love and imitate the Lord in a more meaningful way.
God bless you!


Monday, January 12, 2026

"Stay Focused on the Mission" - What a Dying 7-Year-Old Taught Me About Living

 



Rome, and why the trip mattered

Last week, I was on a mission.

We took the children from the school, twenty-two kids from our choir, to Rome. Our parishioners made that possible. They made it possible for our kids to go to Rome, to shake hands with the Holy Father, to get a blessing from the Holy Father, to be able to sing for the Holy Father. The Holy Father began to sing with us.

A school from Farmer’s Branch.

So many years, people have asked me, “Father, when are you going to do a trip to Rome for the community?” I had no desire to go to Rome, no desire, until I found a proper reason to go.

The question behind today’s readings: Why am I here?

Today’s readings are all about one thing that we can never forget.

Why am I here? Why are you on this earth? What’s the purpose of your life?

The purpose of your life, if you can figure it out, is to fulfill your mission. That’s the reason why you’re here, to fulfill your mission.

A young couple, a first baby, and staying focused

Yesterday I had a beautiful breakfast with a young couple, recently married. They still love each other. They are having their first baby.

Think for a moment when you were having your first baby, and you were excited and nervous. Am I going to be a good parent? Am I going to be able to provide?

They were worried about all these things. I said to them, “What are you worried about?”

They said, “Father, the finances. We live in a small apartment.”

I said, “Just stay focused on the mission. Stay focused on the mission.”

What’s the mission when you’re married? What’s the mission?

“I will love you and honor you all the days of my life.”

Stay focused. If you stay focused on that, you’re perfect. Stay focused on the mission.

They said, “Father, there are people that have it better than us.”

I told them we have to be grateful. 

They said, “We know. There are people that have more than we do. There are people that have less than we do. We have to be grateful for what we have.”

Then I said, “That’s not it. That’s not it.”

“It is not you who chose me, I chose you”

In the first reading today: “Thus says the Lord, here is my servant.” Who’s my servant? “My chosen one.”

I remember when I was getting ordained a priest. I had to go down the aisle with 44 other men. There were supposed to be 45.

Can you imagine that on the last day, someone decided, “I can’t do this. I’m not going to do it.” It took just as much bravery to make that decision at the last minute as it did for the 44 that were going down the aisle.

The only thing that calmed me down was that one verse in the Bible where Jesus says, “It is not you who chose me, I chose you.”

I thought, Okay. You know everything about me. You know my ups, my downs, my weaknesses, my strength. You know everything.

When I look around the congregation, a lot of us are going through tough times. We still must stay focused on the mission.

Witness does not have to be loud

Do you realize that I get nervous when I preach? Do you realize that maybe the cantor gets nervous when she sings?

Maybe some of the children that are going to come up here and give their testimony will hold the microphone and say, “Good morning, everyone,” and they don’t get nervous.

You know why? Because when you’re young, you still are not focused on the mission. That is, I’m here to share something with you for the glory of God. That’s it.

If you can remember that all your life, that the reason why you are here on earth is to share your witness, your testimony for the glory of God, then you’re going to be okay. Everything is going to work out.

“He shall bring forth justice to nations.” “I have put my spirit upon you,” not crying out, not shouting, not making his voice heard in the streets.

It’s funny because in Rome, there was this guy who was shouting, “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus,” in the middle of St. Peter’s. Do you need to do that? No, you don’t.

Our children with their little voices, when they began to sing, I looked in the congregation at St. Peter’s Basilica and there were people crying.

The children were exhausted, because it was a mission

When they were exhausted, waking up at five o’clock in the morning, they were not on vacation.

We warned them. This is a mission, to bring joy and hope to whoever needs it. You don’t know who they are.

The number of people that came up to the children and said, “Where are you from? Where are you from? Your voices are so beautiful.” Their broken English from all over the world.

“We’re from Dallas, Texas.”

Can you imagine?

“The Lord will bless his people with peace.” Breathe in, breathe out, and just know, just do your mission.

It’s not about what you have

When this young couple said to me, “Father, we know that we’re not as bad off as other people,” and that there are some people that have more than we do, and some people that have less than we do, and we’re okay, we should be grateful, I said, “No, that’s not it. That’s not it.”

You will never find in Scripture:

  • “Blessed are they who live to be a hundred.”

  • “Blessed are they who are wealthy.”

You know what they say?

“Blessed are they who know their mission in life.”

I told you, I studied in Rome. I lived in Rome. If it weren’t for the children, if it weren’t for them, the opportunity for them to say hello to the Pope, to get blessed by the Pope, I would not have gone.

“Children, move”: making space for the mission

There was this moment where after he blessed the nativity scene in St. Peter’s Square, he started coming towards the children. I was up in the front.

The mission. What’s the mission?

“Children, get forward. Move out. Everybody, move.”

There’s a picture of me way in the back with my camera like this, and the children are up in the front.

Santa Croce in Gerusalemme, and a child’s faith

When we went to Rome, we visited a small basilica. I used to go there all the time because I used to teach at one Catholic school nearby.

It’s called Santa Croce in Gerusalemme, Holy Cross of Jerusalem.

In this basilica there is a piece of the cross of Jesus, a piece of the cross of the good thief, two thorns from the crown of Jesus, and the finger of Thomas.

I remembered all those things, but I had forgotten that there’s the tomb of a little girl, Antonietta Meo, who is a venerable.

The tour guide was explaining to the children, “This little girl was loved in Rome. The people loved her. She had charisma. She was always smiling. She was joyful. She prayed. She loved God.

When she died, the Roman people wanted to bury her in this basilica because they loved her, and she was such a beautiful person.”

We got in the bus, and I told the tour guide, “Give me the microphone.”

I said to everyone, especially the children, “You know why this child, seven years old, was loved? Because she was dying of cancer. She had bone cancer. Painful.”

She dealt with it with such a supernatural heart and soul that the day the doctors told her they would have to amputate her leg, she wrote a letter to Jesus:

“Jesus, whatever you want, I want.”

Whatever you want, I want. Seven years old.

You know why she’s buried in that basilica and not me? Because I would not be able to do that at 60 years old. I would have a hard time. I would imagine that 90% of us would have a hard time.

Jesus, whatever you want, I want.

Her joy, her smile, her happiness was because she had tremendous faith in God, even when she was suffering.

You have to put the two together. You can’t leave out one and just explain the other.

Not only that, she knew what her mission was.

Baptism, walking with Jesus, and hearing the voice

When I was with the couple, I said to them, it’s not what you have. The richest people can be miserable. The poorest people can be happy. It’s who is fulfilling their mission on earth.

If you want to be happy, serve the Lord, baptize yourself in the Lord.

That’s why in the gospel today, walk with Jesus. That’s why in the gospel today, John says to Jesus, “I’m going to baptize you. You have to baptize me.”

Because what is baptism?

There’s the baptismal font. You get baptized in Jesus, and where do you end up? With Jesus.

So John is saying, how can you walk with yourself? How can you be with yourself? You’re already with yourself. You’re already together. You’re already united.

And Jesus says, let it be done. Let’s do it.

What happens when you finally discover the reason why you’re on this earth?

The heavens open, and you’re going to hear a voice:

“This is my beloved child with whom I am well pleased. Listen to them.”

A community that makes the mission possible

My dear brothers and sisters, you make a difference. You make a huge difference.

You don’t have to pay $20,000, $30,000 for an exceptional educational experience. All you need is a community that knows their mission and makes things possible for these children to experience the beauty of the Catholic faith and church.

You can make that possible.

You know that mission.

Amen?

Monday, December 29, 2025

Are You All In?



Christmas Is the Call to Go All In

This Christmas reflection moves from a funny memory and a Nativity scene check-in to a deeper challenge. What does it look like to be “all in” with God, and what keeps us from it?

Key Takeaways

  • The Christmas story stays the same, but we change each year, so something new can hit our hearts.

  • In the Nativity story, everyone who matters is “all in,” from Mary and Joseph to the shepherds and kings.

  • Fear can keep us halfway in, while love calls us to trust and commit.

  • The only thing worth fearing is choosing life “my way” instead of God’s way.

  • Being “all in” shows up as love and mercy, even when it costs something.

A Christmas Eve memory, and staying awake

My dear brothers and sisters, merry Christmas to everyone. Just staying awake is an accomplishment.

I remember as a child, we would always go to Christmas Eve Mass in Rochester, New York, and it was freezing. Imagine being with all your cousins, your whole family, all together in this really warm home. Then all of a sudden at 11:00 or 11:15, you have to get out of your house, go into the freezing cold, and get to church.

The only memory I have is sitting in the back, and the organist was playing something triumphant, like the introduction. Then all of a sudden, ta-da. And I went, clack, clack, clack, clack, clack, clack, because I was almost asleep. My dad looked at me like, what are you doing?

What do you see in the Nativity scene?

What do you see in the Nativity scene?

At the 4:00 children’s Mass, I asked a couple of the pageant actors, “What are you?” The kid was dressed up like an animal. He said, “I am a rabbit.”

I was like, a rabbit? There are no rabbits. In fact, he was dressed like a donkey. 

Then I asked another kid, “What are you?” “A dog.” I’m not kidding. This is real. This is true. We recorded it.

So when I ask you, “What do you see here,” let’s make sure we all see the same thing.

We see kings. We see shepherds. Are there shepherds? Oh yeah, there’s a shepherd. We see animals. We see Mary. We see Joseph. We see the baby Jesus. Imagine all the stars, the moon.

You know this story by heart. But every year, there has to be something new that penetrates your heart. It is the same story every year, but you are not the same person every year. Things are always changing in your life.

The Thing That Stands Out This Year

For me this year, you know what I see? I see everyone going all in.

God becoming a baby, you’re all in. You’re 100%.

Mary hears the angel, “You will conceive and bear a child.” She’s all in. “Let it be done to me according to your word.”

Joseph gets a dream. Got it. He’s all in.

It may sound simple, but imagine you’re at the 11:00 Mass. Some of you might be thinking, I’m here because my parents forced me to. So you’re here, but you’re not all in. Maybe some of you have not even opened your mouth yet to sing a song. Because I’m here, but I’m not really.

That is how we can live our life.

Look at the shepherds. They hear these angels, and they say, we’ve got to go check it out. The kings, they saw a star, and they follow it. All in. Everyone here is all in.

The People You Don’t See

The people not at the Nativity are the ones that are not all in.

They are the ones saying, are you crazy? Like the kings going home and saying, “Honey, we saw a star.” And the queen saying, “Are you nuts? Why don’t we just wait and see what happens?”

Or the shepherds saying, “Hey guys, let’s see what’s going on.” And the others saying, “No, we’ve got work to do. We’ve got stuff to do.”

Or Joseph saying, “I’m going to take her as my wife.” And people saying, “What? You’re going to have to leave town. People are going to be asking questions.”

You don’t see all the people that are always encouraging you to take a shortcut, or to sin. Because every time you sin, that means you’re not all in.

Believe me, preaching is easy. Actually doing it is another story. I have to be honest with myself. Am I all in?

What You Should Actually Fear

I know fear can play a big part of it. We don’t know what’s going to happen.

But I can assure you, if you live your life by love rather than by fear, you’re going to get the most out of it.

The part you should be fearful of in your life is the part where you say, “I’m not going to do it your way. I’m going to do it my way.”

This could be with your boyfriend. This could be with your girlfriend. This could be living with someone. This could be whatever it is. I’m not all in.

That part, you should be afraid of. That is the part where you should say, if I’m not going to be with God and I’m going to go on my own, okay, good luck. I wish you all the best.

A Child’s Question About Death

Not too long ago, a child at our school asked me a question. He said, “Father, I’m afraid to die.”

And I answered it immediately. I said, “Oh, don’t worry. There’s no reason to be afraid. God is with you always. Don’t be afraid.”

Then I’m thinking, I should have answered that better.

A couple of weeks later, I said, “This is what I want to tell you. The reason why you live is the same reason why you die, to be with God, to be with the love of your life. That’s the reason.”

The reason why you live is to love. The reason why you die is to love, and to be with the love of your life, always.

So Christmas is either God comes to us, or Christmas is when we go to Him. It’s the same.

Sometimes people say to me, “Father, I can’t celebrate Christmas because around this time my father died, my mother died, my son died, my child died.”

No. You’re all in. You have to be all in in this world.

If someone you love died, that means it went from heaven to earth, to earth to heaven. And that’s it. That’s how life is. That’s how God wants. God wants to be with us, always.

That’s why the only thing we should fear is when we’re not all in.

A Story of “All In” Love and Mercy

There was one story I wanted to share with you. It’s going to seem random.

I read an article a while back about this Polish Olympian, Maria Andrzejczyk. I don’t even know if I’m spelling it right. She’s a javelin thrower from Poland, and she won the silver medal in the 2020 Olympics.

Can you imagine? You work tirelessly to win a medal. You’re not an Olympian part time. You’re an Olympian full time. You’re giving it your all.

Weeks later, she found out there was an eight-month-old baby that was dying and desperately needed an operation in another country, and the family couldn’t afford it.

So she put her medal up for auction. The medal she worked her life for. She was able to raise enough money for the family to take their child to get the surgery the baby needed.

The best part is the baby got the surgery, and she got her medal back. The person who gave the money said, “You have a heart of gold. You have a heart of gold, not silver, gold.”

The article ended by saying, “The true Olympic spirit.”

What? The true Olympic spirit? No. The true Olympic spirit is to compete to win.

This is the true Christian spirit. I’m all in.

To be all in means to be able to love and to show mercy. To be all in means, I trust in you, Lord. I love you. We’re in this together.

The Christmas Challenge

In today’s readings and in today’s Christmas celebration, we have to strive to be all in.

Ask yourself, what’s keeping you from doing that?

Amen?