Wednesday of the Sixteenth Week In Ordinary Time
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Jesus spoke to the crowd at length in parables, saying: “A sower went out to sow. And as he sowed, some seed fell on rocky
ground, where it had little soil…”
In his arrival speech, Pope
Francis spoke to the youth at World Youth Day in Brazil, saying:
“I have learned that, to gain access to the Brazilian people, it is necessary
to pass through its great hear; so let me knock gently at this door. I ask permission to come in and spend this
week with you. I have neither silver nor
gold, but I bring with me the most precious thing given to me: Jesus Christ!
I have come in his name, to feed the flame of fraternal love that burns
in every heart; and I wish my greeting to reach one and all: The peace of Christ be with you!”
In today’s Gospel passage, we
learn that Christ’s message comes to us like a seed seeking to find a place to rest
and grow. The seed – the message - is
simple. It’s good. But what about the ground? What kind of reception will it receive?
Rocky ground. I know a man (divorced) who has tried
to raise his four kids the best way possible.
He is a highly educated man, very successful in his career, and earns more
money than he needs. But when it comes
to his children, they have all but rioted against him. He was too old fashioned. He was too stuck in his ways. He wasn’t exciting enough for them, at least
not as exciting as the dads on TV. He
kept beating to a very different drum: education, morals, education, morals,
education, morals.
Suffice it to say, the seed this
man threw fell on really rocky ground. Actually,
it was choked before it even hit rock bottom.
But kids grow up and have to move
out. They need to find a job and pay their
bills. Today, this man’s “children” know
exactly what he was talking about. Life
is tough because it is very fair. You
get what you put into it. Nothing more
and nothing less. If you screw up, then
YOU screwed up.
After years of waste, his kids
are going back to school to earn a degree.
They are finally putting their “house” in order by cleaning up their
act. But their mistakes took their toll
and sucked the best years out of their lives.
They are starting to build what they should have built ten years
ago. They have wasted their life on
rocky ground.
At the start, I said this man
tried his best. I didn’t say he did the
best. He wasn’t careful in monitoring
his children’s relationships. He wasn’t
careful in controlling his children’s settings.
He wasn’t vigilant and proactive in what they heard, read and saw. His divorce cost him his marriage and his
children. It cost him another set of
eyes, ears and hands.
News report after news report continue
to highlight the loss of faith among teens.
What they fail to do is correlate this “loss of faith” with a loss of
faith in humanity; that is, an increase in absent fathers and mothers; an increase
in divorce and separation; the loss of personal morals and dignity; the increase
in promiscuity and drug use; the loss of a loving, stable and solid environment.
Kids today are scared. And they take their fear and act on it: they rebel.
The Pope is in Brazil to knock gently at the door. The teens that are there welcome him. The teens that are not there are scared of
him. Why? Because all they have ever known is the
darkness of sin and the disillusion of falsehoods. All they have ever had is a rough and rocky
life.
If they only knew the calm and
soothing voice of Jesus Christ.
I wonder if part of teens' rebellion involves attempts to fill needs that are going unmet--the love of a family in particular. I worked with one teenager who became pregnant and had a baby. Her half-sister chided her for having a baby. She and her half-sister and other half-siblings lived with her mother and a man who was the mother's third or fourth husband or live-in boyfriend. The teen mother informed me that she had told her sister, "At least I won't be lonely."
ReplyDeleteAs the family goes, so goes the nation and so goes the whole world in which we live. -Pope John Paul II
ReplyDeleteThe great danger for family life, in the midst of any society whose idols are pleasure, comfort and independence, lies in the fact that people close their hearts and become selfish.
ReplyDeletePope John Paul II